Red Flags

Only Search if Your Suspicions are Founded

Founded Concerns vs Unfounded Fears It might be tempting to search through your partner’s phone or other devices, but it can ruin a good relationship. No one wants to feel like they are being watched. And an honest person wants to be and deserves to be trusted. That said, there are times when searching (secretly) […] Read more…

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Shit Gets Old – How to Stop Catching Them in Lies = LEAVE!

Your life wasn’t meant to be spent wading through someone else’s disrespect and hurtful deceitful actions. Constantly wondering what they’re up to behind your back. Constantly worrying that they’re cheating again. Questioning everything they say. Heightened anxiety because of hyper-vigilance. Trying to catch them in another lie. Finding out about other women – other women […] Read more…

Emotional Immaturity Means More Lies, Here’s Why…

A person can have the best intentions, and have big dreams of treating you well, but sometimes actually being able to deliver on those dreams is another story all together. To be good in a relationship takes work, and the biggest part of that work is individual work on yourself. To learn to be honest, […] Read more…

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I Lie Has Many Variations, the Truth – None

One of the biggest tells of a lie is of course, hearing two variations of a story. You hear something different and it trips your lie radar and you think, “Wait a minute here, that’s not what you said before.” This is often the first sign that you’ve been lied to, but there is another […] Read more…

What True Love is and What it isn’t

Control and manipulation should never – and I mean NEVER – be a part of love. True Love is a free expression of caring for another individual – with very little judgement and all the feelings of warm fuzzies and genuine care for that individual’s well-being. Well-being being the key factor. That you care about […] Read more…