Your life wasn’t meant to be spent wading through someone else’s disrespect and hurtful deceitful actions.
Constantly wondering what they’re up to behind your back. Constantly worrying that they’re cheating again. Questioning everything they say. Heightened anxiety because of hyper-vigilance. Trying to catch them in another lie.
Finding out about other women – other women they are flirting with, other women they are exchanging dirty pictures with, other women they are messing around with at work, other women they are meeting up with behind your back, other women they are cheating on you with. Finding out they spend hours per day, even at work, looking at porn. Finding out they spend hours a day stalking other women on social media sites. Finding out they talk shit about you and make fun of you behind your back.
ENOUGH!!! This is fucking ridiculous. Life is too short, and this shit gets OLD.
Here’s the thing. **You can leave!** Don’t feel like you can? I give you permission.
I give you permission to stop doing all of the things in the first list, and I give you permission to NEVER have to live with ANY (not even ONE) thing in the second list EVER AGAIN!
I’ll say it a second time:
Your life wasn’t meant to be spent wading through someone else’s disrespect and hurtful deceitful actions.
This is not love. It never will be. Love means you’re on the same side.
You can stop – it’s your life. Love yourself enough to stop living this way.
You can start over. I know that seems really scary but you can. Even alone is better than the lists at the start of this post.
No one can keep that list up and not suffer the detrimental health effects of extreme stress. And also the debilitating effects of having your heart broken over and over again. If you stay in a situation that makes you feel those things, you will start to have health problems. And that is not meant for you.
Anyone who cheats, lies, and disrespects you behind your back does not deserve a place in your life.
There are good people in the world, people who are capable of real love and caring!!
If you need some help with getting your head around this – here are my two favorite books that helped me. I’ve read Leave a Cheater Gain a Life at least 5 times!
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Yours in Truth,
Rowan