So many times when I first see a new client they are completely at the end of their rope. They have been so stressed out for so long about the state of the relationship and what they suspect their partner has been up to they can barely function like a normal human.
Much less excel at at life. – They are just barely holding it together.
It makes me so sad. I want to hit the ejector button for these people and show them how much better their life could be without all this stress. How much better a parent they could be, how much time they would have to their own enjoyment, how much LESS – like, SIGNIFICANTLY less, stress they would have in their lives.
Stress over time can cause significant and irreversible damage to your physical body. Elevated heart rate, elevated blood pressure, and elevated stress hormones, lack of sleep can cause all kinds of illnesses. You don’t deserve to have your health compromised my the person who is supposed to love and care for you!
Your emotional well-being matters. You deserve to feel happy and have a manageable level of stress in your life. Not to have your partner adding to that and compounding it by being untrustworthy. All that hyper-vigilance and constant worry is exhausting and horrible to have to live with.
If you find yourself in a situation like this maybe you are like I was.
I didn’t think that I had enough reason to leave just because I was stressed out and had some serious suspicions that my husband was cheating on me.
So I stayed. I stayed for 3 more years in fact, living like that. And I was a walking zombie. I couldn’t relax, I couldn’t sleep and I was constantly spinning my wheels about where he was, who he was with, what he was up to. It was a living nightmare. Every day. Until I finally decided I had had ENOUGH.
But I still needed more – for me to end a marriage I really needed proof that he was up to no good. I wanted to know once and for all if he really was cheating on me.
So, ALONE, I bought a key logger (a software that you install on a computer that tracks every key stroke, and the good ones you can set up keywords to take a screen shot at certain times), and a GPS tracker for his car. I managed to get both in place and what I found out ASTONISHED me.
I thought maybe it would be some stuff here and there, but what I found was that he had profiles on casual sex sites – he was a paying member on them and his profile showed that he was on them frequently – like every day for MONTHS. I found out that he had cheated on me several times. I found out that he liked to go to massage places that gave happy endings. And last but on least, I found out that he had seen prostitutes.
It was more than I could have ever imagined. I was living with a sex addict and I had no idea. I had been married for 8.5 YEARS to this man! I had two children with this man. And my marriage was suddenly and shockingly over. Completely over.
I don’t want anyone else to go through what I went through.
- I don’t want anyone to wait around, living in hell, for 3+ years before they find out for sure. (STD’s are real, people, find out now. Before it’s too late.)
- I don’t want anyone to have to go through what I went through ALONE. I want you to have support and feel like you have an expert on your side (me of course.) 🙂 To help and guide you along the way. Not only for the surveillance devices, but for emotional support too. Because I’ve been there. I’ve actually been there 3 times. Yes, three times…. married and lied to and deceived and filing for divorce. That’s why I’m so passionate about this. They were the worst experiences of my life, all three times just about killed me. So I don’t want you to be alone.
Give me a call today if you need to talk. 612-222-1121 (be sure to leave a detailed message letting me know when it would be safe to call you back or text you.)
And check out my products page if you are ready to know for SURE – once and for all.
Sincerely,
Rowan