If your man says he’s not watching porn, but he’s still on Instagram, you should know…
To start with, I just want to say that I am not 100% against porn. But this site is all about combating deception in an effort to have more stable, meaningful, and loving relationships. All I’m saying is – if someone is telling you they don’t watch porn, or has made a promise to you not to watch it – they still might be – and that lie is what I want to enlighten you about today.
Say you’ve had some marital problems that you’ve been trying to work out. You’re trying to rebuild trust and one of the issues that has come up is porn, or the amount of it, or looking at other women sexually… Your partner has sworn to you that they are no longer watching it and won’t. Are they telling you the truth? Can you rely on them to follow through on that promise?
I hope it’s obvious to you that Snapchat is going to be a no-brainer to get to watch naked girls, and get pics of naked girls. If your partner is still on Snapchat you don’t even need to research – they are not being honest with you about the porn/other women B.S.
Instagram however (as well as Pinterest!) may not trip any warning bells for you… (sigh…)
If they are on Instagram you may have a warning sign that they are not actually keeping that “no porn” promise. They very well may be watching a form of porn.
**The pics below are graphic in nature. They are intended to enlighten and inform only. Please do not scroll down if you will be offended or triggered in some way. I am about to show you exactly what’s on Instagram that you may not know about.**
This image is blurry because it’s a VIDEO:
Also blurry – also a VIDEO – and yes, you can see it all…
Also a VIDEO – She’s hanging there naked and crying – Just a little factoid – I think you get the idea here…
And if you need “porn” to be actual “sex” here you go:
And in case you didn’t know there are Snapchat accounts just for porn, Snapchat style porn and women to “chat” with. Check this out:
https://dirtyusernames.com/pages/best-nude-snapchat/
And here’s a picture of a bunny in a hat to get us all back to happy land… Bunnies in hats are not porn! Wheew!
Well, now that you have this valuable information I am willing to bet more than a few of you have your suspicions about what your partner is actually doing online/on their phone vs what they are telling you.
If you are suspicious do NOT confront your partner!!! You will tip them off if they are doing this and you will lose your chance to catch them. They will just lie to you and promptly cover their track better so you don’t find actual proof.
I am happy to help in the case that you do want to try to catch your partner and have actual proof to confront them with. There are many services and apps out there to accomplish this. I always hope we find nothing, but more often than I would like to admit – there is something. It’s sad, but it’s part of the reason I have the passion to stop this moral decay.
Regardless of what you choose to do next, I hope you know – you deserve the truth and you deserve to be in a happy stable relationship where someone is not lying to you every damn day and/or doing things behind your back!
Yours in Truth ~
Rowan