The quote, “Trust but Verify,” from Abe Lincoln, is one of my favorites.
Blind trust is just asking for trouble. Trust is something that is earned over time – you don’t just give it to someone for no reason. And if they have broken your trust, it will take time for them to regain and rebuild that trust – and you will need and DESERVE verification during that time to help you to trust again.
If there is no verification of the trust then why should you trust them? If they have untrustworthy behaviors – such as lies or half-truths, or spinning the facts to make themselves seem innocent – then you SHOULDN’T – and that’s okay.
But how do you know for sure?
Especially after trust has been broken?
Sometimes the only way to set your mind completely at ease is to do some detective work.
Digital surveillance is one of the sure fire ways to see if your partner can be trusted, or not. You deserve to know the truth about the person you are investing your time and emotions in to. And if you are working on rebuilding trust from a breach, you can heal the pain faster if you do indeed find out that they ARE trustworthy.
And don’t ever feel guilty either. Believe me, it’s only the guilty ones that care if you “invade” their privacy or “snoop” on them. The honest ones tend to welcome this kind of thing because they know they will pass the test, and they genuinely WANT the relationship to get back on track and they WANT you to feel better about trusting them from a place of genuine love and caring.
If you’ve gotten to a place where you think you can trust your partner but you’re not quite sure, or you are working on rebuilding trust and you really just want to know for sure check out these surveillance devices and see what you think will work for you: CLICK HERE FOR PRODUCTS PAGE.
Or give me a call if you need to talk it over first. And I also offer coaching on the products as well.
612-222-1121 (be sure to leave a detailed message letting me know when it would be safe to call you back or text you.)
Sincerely,
Rowan